What I want is a swim suit that is also shape ware. I've found a few sites, but they are expensive. Considering I won't be buying one until next year I'll just save my pennies until that time comes.
I am not liking my saggy skin in my thighs either. I'll just get a srong/wrap that can go in the pool with me. I don't like my stomach/over hang either, which is why I need a shape ware type suit to suck it all in.
In the end though, I have to prep myself with self motivating speeches. I mean I am married and my husband loves me and my body the way it is no matter what. Who am I really trying to impress after that?! Should it really matter that someone else thinks my skin is saggy? Would they be wrong? No, and I don't care because it is my badge of honor!!! This saggy skin has stretched to hold 8 children! This saggy skin is saggy now because I worked hard to go through surgery and lose 130 pounds! I will never have a perfect body and I know no one else has a perfect body either. The perfect bodies I see are airbrushed, photoshopped models. They aren't real!!
I can guarantee you that probably every other woman in a swim suit around you will be worried about some body part on them as well. They are hiding some saggy skin, scar, or what not. They don't like their butt, arms, boobs, etc etc etc etc.
Are you obsessing? Probably no more than everyone else around you! LOL
Until then look for some good covering swim suits. http://modestswimsuitsandswimwear.com/http://www.swim-faster.com/SpeedoFastskinFSIIChartW.asphttp://www.simply-modest.com/posecom/http://www.swimmodest.com/
Just look around and I am sure you'll find something that you'll feel comfortable in and of course look fabulous in too!