MelissaAletha
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: 5/26/09
Surgery Type: RNY
From:: Southern California
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« Reply #25 on: January 30, 2010, 05:38:20 AM » |
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If I lay on my back......I feel like a spill, lol Y'know, everything pools.....spreads out.......like a puddle.......no, on the back isn't always better. Variety, as always, is the spice of life  EXACTLY! I dont like being on my back anymore. I dont care if everything is hanging. I'm on top 98% of the time. Plus I like sex 10x more when I'm on top. LOL |
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kristopia
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: July 21, 2009, Dr. Armando Joya
Surgery Type: VSG
Posts: 2805
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« Reply #26 on: January 30, 2010, 02:59:58 PM » |
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I like it better from underneath, not because of gravity, just because  I suppose I was "dominant" for 21 years of marriage to a man who turned out to be gay, so now I like the man to take a more dominant role - not that I don't like a LOT of variety - spice of life and all that LOL See? You hafta come in more now that we have a singles board - we can compare notes!  |
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MelissaAletha
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: 5/26/09
Surgery Type: RNY
From:: Southern California
Posts: 771
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« Reply #27 on: January 30, 2010, 03:28:56 PM » |
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Makes such perfect sense because for me I was always on the bottom. A lot more submissive in bed pre op. So now post op thats all changed. I'm a lot more dominate! haha PS. I'm loving that there is a singles section |
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Mo-Mik
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: July 27, 2009
Surgery Type: RNY
From:: KC, MO
Posts: 1140
Life is Good!
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« Reply #28 on: February 02, 2010, 06:59:46 AM » |
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PS. I'm loving that there is a singles section ME TOO and I'm married  |
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kristopia
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: July 21, 2009, Dr. Armando Joya
Surgery Type: VSG
Posts: 2805
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« Reply #29 on: February 02, 2010, 03:05:58 PM » |
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LOL - well you married people can give us single people ideas - and WLS sex tips **heh**
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Patrina
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Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: April 30. 2010
Surgery Type: RNY
From:: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 550
Patrina a.k.a JessicaRabbit
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« Reply #30 on: March 07, 2010, 09:49:25 AM » |
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Two things....I own bloodhounds, so post surgery I will just feel even more at home...and two....regarding filming meetings at Lynda's house in September...3 words...Pay Per View!  |
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Seht
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: January 22, 2008
Surgery Type: RnY
Posts: 759
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« Reply #31 on: May 27, 2010, 08:52:55 AM » |
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From a guys perspective, I currently hate the way being on top makes me feel. Everything hangs down.
I look like a 90 year old woman with a couple tennis balls in tube socks hanging from my chest.
I know I'd get much more results having my tummy worked on with plastic surgery, but this is one area of where I think vanity is going to win out. I just feel so self conscious. I don't feel attractive like that, and wonder what my wifes thoughts are on this matter. She would never say anything, and of course she would only say the things that she thinks wouldn't hurt my feelings.
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"The one thing I want to leave my children is an honorable name." "It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed."
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kristopia
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: July 21, 2009, Dr. Armando Joya
Surgery Type: VSG
Posts: 2805
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« Reply #32 on: May 27, 2010, 09:34:04 PM » |
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I have TOTALLY used the tennis balls in tube socks reference referring to myself! LOL It's funny, but it's not - I hate the way I look on top, too, for that reason. Though I'm not thrilled with on my back either, because then the boobs slide into my armpits and disappear. Either way it's not my ideal. If I ever do any plastic surgery, it'll be the boob lift before anything else. Call me vain, but even when I was 86 lbs heavier, my boobs were my best feature - and now they're just....sad.  |
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trimoon
Don't S#@!$ The Bed, Tim!
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: 5/31/2010
Surgery Type: RNY
From:: Charlotte
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« Reply #33 on: May 28, 2010, 03:31:07 AM » |
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My husband and I have talked a lot about this (I'm still preop) and as he put it, "Once you are to the point where you need to decide top or bottom, no man actually cares that there is something sagging here or flapping there, he is just excited about getting some." hehehe.
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Seht
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Surgery Date: January 22, 2008
Surgery Type: RnY
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« Reply #34 on: May 28, 2010, 05:19:00 AM » |
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Amen to that!
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"The one thing I want to leave my children is an honorable name." "It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed."
T. Roosevelt April 10, 1899
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kristopia
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: July 21, 2009, Dr. Armando Joya
Surgery Type: VSG
Posts: 2805
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« Reply #35 on: May 31, 2010, 12:49:40 PM » |
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And if he does care, he's more interested in vanity than sex - who needs a man like that? LOL
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TheDivineMissT
Royal Freakness
Surgery Date: November 11, 2009
Surgery Type: RNY
From:: Proud Missouri Girl!
Posts: 415
"Life is too short to wear matching socks."
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« Reply #36 on: July 13, 2010, 09:31:33 PM » |
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Late to the party but I just wanted to say that this thread ROCKS! Saggy bits and all! |
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kristopia
Grand Poohbah of Freaks
Surgery Date: July 21, 2009, Dr. Armando Joya
Surgery Type: VSG
Posts: 2805
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« Reply #37 on: July 14, 2010, 08:26:53 AM » |
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Look at your picture! You look HOT!
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« Reply #38 on: July 14, 2010, 01:59:30 PM » |
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Oooh, excellent advice from both Pete and Kris. I also have one quick comment that I got from "The Golden Girls" TV show many years ago, and I've never forgotten it.
"Always on your back, girl!"
When you're on your back, everything falls nicely back and you look toned and lovely. On top, everything falls forward and hangs!
I find that I don't need to be on top, so this one is a nice rule for me!
HAHAHA, I remember that episode. Too funny. Just do this...is your on top, turn off the lights or just use candles! |
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TheDivineMissT
Royal Freakness
Surgery Date: November 11, 2009
Surgery Type: RNY
From:: Proud Missouri Girl!
Posts: 415
"Life is too short to wear matching socks."
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« Reply #39 on: July 14, 2010, 04:57:08 PM » |
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Look at your picture! You look HOT!
*giggle* Thanks.....who wants my phone number? hahahahaha |
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